Absolutely Nothing To Write About : A term of endearment

Something has been bothering me for some time and it seems this is as good a place as any to share it.

What is the correct term of endearment to use when writing an email to a friend or wishing them a Happy Birthday on Facebook or sending a greeting via SMS? Or should they just be scrapped all together? There are all kinds of words being used in place of names, words such as Lovely and Honey and Darling and Beautiful and Gorgeous and Mate and Bro.  And that’s just the very start of it…..I’ve been called Poppet quite a bit recently, which I secretly rather like, and I’ve found myself using Sweetheart a little too often. Even as I’m writing the word, I have a weird feeling that some other, friendlier, more touchy feely person has momentarily taken over my hand and mind. Yet I still do it.

I remember – about 15 years ago – cringing when anyone called me Babe. It was just about the worst thing you could call a person, or maybe it was just me. And now, it’s thrown around (I do it too) left right and centre and no one bats an eyelid, including me! I actually don’t mind it and I like Baby even more. Very odd.

So will we ever go back to just using each others names or will it carry on being a bit of a competition of who can think of the most original and most endearing term. Maybe it’s something we’ll grow out of. Who knows. But what I do know is that it’s beginning to confuse me so I may just have to stick to one single greeting which can become mine. And I think my word shall be……Dangleberry. It’s got a nice ring to it and feels friendly without being overly gushing.

Wikipedia have a useful guide to Terms Of Endearment, I’m pleased to see it’s been bothering them too.


One Comment on “Absolutely Nothing To Write About : A term of endearment”

  1. Samantha Taylor says:

    This got me thinking. I have a slightly embarrassing tendency to overuse the word ‘hon’, but only when i’m writing, and never ‘hun’. But I don’t think that makes it any better..maybe I need a new word too.


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